"I tend to keep my inner MILF a secret," said Victoria Miller, a 41-year-old wife, mother and first-timer from the southern United States.
"People who know me would never expect me to be here," she said. "They know me as a quiet woman. Maybe a little shy. The Victoria they know would never swim with sharks or drive in a police car. She would never jump out of a plane are have sex with a stranger on-camera. My kids think I'm a fuddy-dud. I try to be that cool mom, and I know it's not working. So this is me doing something for me that I never thought I'd have the opportunity to do."
Victoria came to 40SomethingMag.com because she's crossing off items on her bucket list. But don't go thinking that Victoria was a fuddy-dud before she came here.